things i will not do anymore

1. not speak up for myself.

2. not require respect, reguardless from whom

3. let someone else change my mind

4. feel bad for my feelings

5. do something i dont want to do to please someone else

6. say yes when i want to say no

7. stuff my emotions with food

8. give my job my best, and offer my family what's left over of me at the end of the day

9. buy larger clothes!

10. allow my emotions to be justification for behaving out of character

11. let a month or three or nine (lol) pass without blogging. This is my outlet, and we all need an outlet!

to be continued as i think of things.....